Core Lessons

During my Healing and, even today, I use “The Circle of Trust” as both a teaching tool and for my own resource to evaluate and determine the levels of Trust, Intimacy, and how Boundary Setting is most effective when utilized properly. Too many people are not taught how to set Boundaries, but many of my […]

Logical Laws of Psychology 1- Emotions are Logical Conclusions formed from the Premise formed within one’s Love, Value, and Beliefs 2- Perspective is the Reality in which an Individual lives and defines their Perception of Truth based on the Logic of their Cognitive Core. 3- Love is a State of Being for it is Constant

The Subconscious Mind and the Conscious Mind is made up of 7 Parts: 1 – Identity 2 – Conscious Awareness 3 – Intuition 4 – Subconscious Mind (Logic) 5 – Fear System – Guilt System 6 – Defense System 7 – Self-Preservation (Revealed itself only after the Fear System became Dormant) Did my Self-Preservation turn

Inductive Reasoning is the Logical Argument that uses facts that are determined by repeated observations. “A patient breaks down crying suddenly without a rational catalyst.” Because, in this case, a catalyst is not visible. Primarily because the catalyst is the Abstract Emotional State occurring within the patient’s mind, unseen and inexperienced by the Observer. Think

You cannot have a comfortable life on the outside and a comfortable life on the inside until you accept and work through the discomfort on the inside. The Human Experience requires balance. The Ying and the Yang. You must choose, what kind of life you have. Do I want to be comfortable on the inside?

Identity Joy, Excitement, Adventure, Elation Calm Cognitive Core Stages of Change, Shock and Awe/Negotiation/ Grief = Loss, Sad (is healthy) Fear System (Guilt System) Fear, Shame (Guilt) – BOUNDARIES – Guilt = Violation of Ethics = SCARCITY Defense System Anger, Frustration, Annoyance, “Being Bothered” Confusion = RED ALERT = TAMPERING Cognitive Core Anxiety = RED

The Five Stages of Healing “Grow On” Grow On… These words did so much to change my Mindset from “I’m leaving loved ones behind” to “I have to grow on. You can come with me. I can’t carry you, but I can show you The Unknown, and maybe… just maybe, when you are ready, you

The most destructive societal belief we have in today’s mindset is this: That there is no one answer to healing. That every one heals differently. That we are all alone on our healing journey. That every individual just has to “figure it out” on their own. So I see isolated, lonely, lost, confused, unaware, hurt

“The Stages of Grief” always bothered me. “Why grief?” I always asked. Grief is only one Emotional Pathway within the Stages of Change. “The Stages of Grief” however, were a fraction to a greater whole. The Stages of Perspective Change reveal the “Whole” and provides explanation to how it fits into The Cognitive Core and